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Screen Addiction in Teen Girls: When It Signals a Deeper Issue

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What Is Screen Addiction in Teens?

Screen addiction or tech addiction in teens is a pattern of compulsive digital use that a teen struggles to control, even when it causes problems in daily life.

It may involve social media, gaming, short-form videos, messaging, streaming, online shopping, pornography, or constant phone checking. It isn’t concerning that a teen enjoys technology, but it becomes a concern when teens keep returning to screens even when it affects sleep, school, relationships, mood, safety, or family trust.

Researchers and clinicians describe this using terms like problematic screen use, addictive screen use, tech addiction, or digital addiction. No matter the term, these share a similar pattern: loss of control, emotional distress when unable to use, and continued use despite consequences.

We think it’s important to note that “screen addiction” is not an official DSM-5 diagnosis. The DSM-5 includes Internet Gaming Disorder in Section III as a condition for further study, while gambling disorder is the only behavioral addiction currently recognized as a diagnosable DSM-5 disorder. Still, many clinicians use a behavioral-addiction or process-addiction framework when screen use becomes compulsive, hard to stop, and harmful to daily life.

In this article, “screen addiction” is used in that practical, parent-friendly sense. It describes a concerning pattern, not a formal diagnosis.

Screen Addiction in Teen Girls: When It Signals a Deeper Issue

Your daughter says she is “just checking one thing,” but an hour later, she is still scrolling. She promises she will go to bed soon, but the light from her phone is still under the door at midnight. When you set a limit, she doesn’t just get annoyed: she panics, shuts down, begs for more time, or explodes. School, sleep, friendships, and family trust start to suffer.

At first, it may look like a screen-time problem, too much access. But for some teen girls, the issue is not only how many hours they spend online, but the pattern of it, the pull of their devices. The issue is what happens when they try to stop. From a different angle, it is what the screen may be helping them avoid, numb, or control.

This is why experts are paying closer attention to addictive screen use, not just total screen time. A 2025 JAMA cohort study found that high or increasing addictive use of social media, mobile phones, or video games was associated with suicidal ideation, suicidal behaviors, and worse mental health outcomes among youth. The study also noted that total screen time alone did not explain the same risk pattern, supporting a more nuanced focus on compulsive use rather than minutes alone.

This study’s distinction matters. A teen can spend time online in creative, social, or educational ways, but when screen use becomes compulsive, secretive, emotionally intense, or tied to unsafe choices, families may need to look deeper.

For families considering IOP, residential treatment, or other structured support, screen addiction may be one part of a larger picture. Tech addiction can overlap with process addictions, substance use, anxiety, depression, trauma, school refusal, self-harm, and family disconnection.

Screen Time vs. Screen Addiction: Why the Pattern Matters

Concerns around screen time focus on one question: “How long was she on the device?”

That question can be useful, especially when sleep, school, or family time is being crowded out. But it does not tell the whole story. A better question is, what happens when she has to stop?

Parents can look for patterns like:

Can she stop when she needs to?
Does she become panicked, furious, or hopeless when offline?
Is she using screens to escape anxiety, shame, sadness, loneliness, cravings, or trauma reminders?
Is screen use replacing sleep, school, hobbies, meals, movement, or face-to-face connection?
Does she keep using despite serious consequences?

Distinctions like this matter because not all screen use is harmful. People commonly use technology to create art, learn new skills, connect with friends, research a school project, play games to unwind, or participate in a supportive community. These behaviors are different from doom-scrolling until 2 a.m., gaming to avoid school, checking social media every few minutes to manage social anxiety, or hiding online behavior after repeated family conflict.

The American Academy of Pediatrics now emphasizes quality, context, and balance rather than simple fixed time limits for all youth, especially as digital life has become more complex. For parents, that means the goal is not to panic over every hour online. The goal is to understand whether screen use is helping or hurting your daughter’s life.

How App Design Keeps Teens Coming Back

It’s worth remembering that teens are not setting limits in a neutral environment. Many technologies are actually designed to grab and hold our attention. Apps, games, and social platforms often use persuasive design features like infinite scroll, autoplay, notifications, streaks, likes, and algorithmic recommendations. These features can make it harder to stop, especially for adolescents whose brains are still developing skills for impulse control, emotional regulation, and long-term decision-making.

This does not remove personal responsibility around habits, but it can add some context.

The American Psychological Association has recommended that teens receive social media literacy training to better understand how platforms may influence attention, behavior, and well-being.

Compulsive screen use is not simply a “willpower problem.” Teens –– and adults –– may be trying to set limits while also pushing against platforms designed to pull them back in.

Signs Your Daughter’s Screen Use May Be Compulsive

One warning sign does not imply addiction. Teens need privacy, social connection, and independence. They may also resist limits as part of normal development.

The pattern becomes more concerning when screen use starts to change your daughter’s sleep, mood, school performance, honesty, safety, or interest in offline life.

1. She Feels Anxious, Angry, or Panicked When Offline

Many teens dislike being away from their phones, but compulsive use often brings a stronger emotional reaction.

You may notice:

Panic when the phone dies.
Anger when Wi-Fi is unavailable.
Intense fear of missing out.
Crying, yelling, or threatening when limits are set.
Restlessness when she cannot check messages.
Feeling “unsafe” without the phone.

Reactions attached to compulsive behavior aren’t usually just about the device. For some teens, the phone represents connection, control, distraction, reassurance, or escape. When it is removed, the underlying emotion may rush forward.

2. Screens Interfere With Sleep, School, or Relationships

Sleep disruption is one of the clearest warning signs. A teen may stay up scrolling, wake during the night to check messages, fall asleep with videos playing, or intentionally hide a device under her pillow. Over time, lack of sleep can worsen mood, attention, irritability, and impulse control.

Parents may also notice:

Falling grades.
Missed assignments.
School avoidance.
Skipping meals or family time.
Less interest in sports, art, music, or friendships.
More isolation in her room.
Increased conflict when asked to stop.

AACAP notes that children and adolescents spend significant time with screens and encourages families to set healthy limits, choose quality content, and create balanced routines.

3. She Hides Use or Breaks Rules Repeatedly

Secrecy can be a sign that your daughter feels ashamed, afraid, or unable to control her behavior around screens.

You may find a hidden app, a second account, deleted messages, or a device being used after bedtime. You may make an agreement together, only to discover the same behavior again a few days later.

This does not mean your daughter is “bad.” It may mean the behavior has become powerful enough that rules alone are not working. At that point, more rules may create more hiding unless the family also addresses what the screen is helping her manage.

4. She Uses Screens to Escape Emotional Pain

This is often the most important sign.

A teen may turn to screens every time she feels rejected, anxious, bored, ashamed, lonely, angry, or sad. She may not know how to calm her nervous system without scrolling, gaming, messaging, or watching videos.

Parents may hear:

“It’s the only thing that helps.”
“I can’t deal with school without my phone.”
“I need to know what people are saying.”
“I feel worse when I’m alone with my thoughts.”
“I don’t care about anything else.”

When screens become the main coping tool, the teen may lose practice with other ways of managing distress.

5. Offline Life Starts to Shrink

A teen struggling with addictive screen use may slowly disconnect from activities that once mattered. They may stop attending events or avoid meeting friends in person. They may lose interest in hobbies that once filled their free time. Essentially, their world gets smaller while the online world gets bigger.

This is especially concerning when the teen seems more distressed after being online but still cannot stop. Screen addiction in teen girls is often not just about the device. It may be a sign of deeper emotional pain, process addiction patterns, substance use risk, trauma, anxiety, depression, or disconnection from family and offline life.

Why Teen Girls May Be Especially Vulnerable

Teen girls often experience online life through relationships. Delayed replies can feel like rejection, group photos can feel like proof she was left out, and comments about appearance can stay with her for days.

Social media can intensify comparison, body image pressure, fear of exclusion, friend conflict, and the pressure to respond immediately. A daughter may not say, “I’m addicted to my phone.” She may say:

“Everyone will forget about me.”
“I need to know if they posted without me.”
“I look terrible.”
“I can’t ignore the group chat.”
“If I don’t answer, they’ll be mad.”
“The algorithm won’t show my posts if I take a break.”

For girls with anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, low self-worth, or rejection sensitivity, online connections can feel both comforting and painful. It gives reassurance, but the reassurance fades. It distracts from distress, but the distress returns. It creates connection, but it may also deepen comparison and loneliness.

That cycle can be hard to break without support, especially when online identity has started to feel more manageable than real-life connections.

How Screen Addiction Overlaps With Process Addictions

Screen addiction is often discussed as a type of process addiction or behavioral addiction. Process addictions involve compulsive engagement in a behavior despite negative consequences. They may include gaming, social media use, online shopping, gambling-like behaviors, exercise, or other rewarding behaviors.

Compulsive screen use may include patterns that resemble other addictions:

Cravings or urges.
Loss of control.
Secrecy.
Emotional withdrawal when unable to use.
Needing more time or intensity to feel satisfied.
Continued use despite harm.
Repeated failed attempts to cut back.

For teen girls, the behavior may begin as a method to self-soothe. It may help her avoid painful emotions, peer rejection, trauma memories, family conflict, or school stress. But over time, it can become one of the main ways she copes.

That is when the problem is no longer just the app, game, or phone. The deeper concern is the underlying emotional pattern.

The Connection Between Screen Addiction and Substance Use Risk

Screen addiction and substance use are not the same thing. One does not automatically cause the other, but for some teens, they can overlap. A teen may use screens and substances for similar reasons: to numb, escape, feel accepted, reduce anxiety, or avoid distress.

Recent research has examined links between screen use patterns and substance use experimentation in early adolescents. One prospective study using ABCD Study data found associations between several screen modalities and later substance use experimentation among early adolescents.

Online spaces may expose teens to substance-related content, risky peer groups, normalization of drugs and alcohol, or social situations where substance use is encouraged. This does not mean parents should assume the worst. It does mean that if compulsive screen use appears alongside vaping, cannabis use, alcohol use, secrecy, school problems, or unsafe peers, the family may need a broader assessment.

Consider asking: “What role are screens and substances playing in her emotional life?” If both are helping a teen avoid pain or seek relief, it’s likely that the deeper coping pattern needs to be supported through therapeutic treatment.

When Screen Addiction May Need More Than Parental Controls

App limits, device-free bedrooms, and screen-free family routines can all be helpful tools for reducing screen time. But parental controls alone may not be enough when screen use is connected to larger safety or mental health concerns.

Professional support may be needed if your daughter’s screen use is connected to:

Suicidal thoughts or self-harm.
Substance use.
School refusal.
Severe depression or anxiety.
Trauma symptoms.
Unsafe online relationships.
Aggression when limits are set.
Eating disorder behaviors.
Major sleep disruption.
Repeated failed attempts to reduce use.
Family conflict that feels unmanageable.

The 2025 JAMA study found that youth with high or increasing addictive screen use trajectories had worse mental health outcomes and higher risk patterns related to suicidal ideation or behavior, especially around social media and mobile phone use.

Studies like this are helpful to guide families toward the right question: “Is this behavior becoming compulsive, harmful, and emotionally necessary?”

Outpatient, IOP, or Residential Treatment: What Level of Care May Fit?

Parents often wonder whether their daughter needs therapy, IOP, residential treatment, or something else.

There is no one-size-fits-all answer. A licensed professional should help assess safety, functioning, substance use, family dynamics, and co-occurring mental health needs.

Still, the following framework can help families think about next steps.

Level of Care	May Be Appropriate When	Primary Goal
Outpatient therapy	Screen use is concerning, but safety, school, and home routines are mostly stable	Build awareness, coping skills, and family boundaries
Intensive outpatient program	Screen use overlaps with anxiety, depression, early substance use, school problems, or family conflict, but the teen can remain safe at home	Provide structured therapy while the teen practices skills in daily life
Residential treatment	Screen use is part of a larger crisis involving substance use, self-harm, suicidal ideation, unsafe behavior, trauma symptoms, or repeated failed attempts at home	Create safety, reduce triggers, stabilize mental health, and rebuild coping skills

Concerned that screen use is part of a larger safety, substance use, or mental health concern?

Speak with our admissions team about whether residential support may be appropriate.

When IOP May Help

An intensive outpatient program may be a good fit when a teen needs more than weekly therapy but does not need 24-hour care.

IOP may support teens who:

Are struggling with compulsive screen use and emotional dysregulation.
Have early substance use concerns.
Need structured skills practice several days per week.
Can stay safe at home.
Have caregivers who can maintain boundaries.
Are still able to participate in school or daily routines.

IOP can be especially helpful when the goal is to practice new coping skills in real-life settings.

When Residential Treatment May Help

Residential treatment may be appropriate when home-based limits and outpatient support are not enough.

This may include situations where screen use is connected to:

Substance use.
Self-harm or suicidal thoughts.
Unsafe online contact.
Severe family conflict.
School refusal.
Running away.
Aggression.
Trauma symptoms.
Serious mood instability.
Repeated failed attempts to stop or reduce use.

In residential treatment, a teen has space away from daily triggers. She can build emotional regulation skills, address co-occurring concerns, and reconnect with life outside of screens.

How Solstice West RTC Supports Teen Girls and Families

Solstice West RTC supports adolescent girls whose screen use may be part of a larger pattern of emotional distress, process addiction, substance use, trauma, anxiety, depression, or family disconnection.

The goal is not to shame the use of technology, but to understand what the behavior is doing for the teen. Is this pattern helping her avoid grief? Is it numbing anxiety? Is it replacing face-to-face connection? Is it keeping her tied to unsafe peers? Is it part of a broader process addiction or substance use pattern?

In a residential setting, girls can step away from the patterns they have built alongside constant digital pressure to begin practicing healthier ways to manage discomfort. Here, they can rebuild sleep routines, strengthen emotional regulation, repair family trust, and rediscover meaningful offline activities.

For many families, treatment is also a chance to move from daily power struggles to clearer communication. Through family work, we help parents learn what their whole family needs to feel safe, connected, and capable in the modern world.

What Parents Can Do Before Things Escalate

If you are worried about your daughter’s screen use, you do not have to solve everything in one conversation.

Start With Curiosity, Not Accusation

Try saying:

“I’ve noticed it seems really hard to be away from your phone lately. I’m not trying to shame you. Honestly, I know how easy it is to get pulled into my own screen, too. I’m wondering what your phone is helping with right now.”

This approach does not remove the need for limits. It gives your daughter a better chance of staying in the conversation long enough to tell you something useful

Track Emotional Triggers

Notice when compulsive use spikes. Some common triggers may be:

After school.
Before bed.
After a conflict with friends, family, or partners.
During homework.
After therapy.
When alone.
When feeling rejected, bored, or ashamed.

Once you understand the trigger, you can support the underlying need.

Protect Sleep First

Sleep affects mood, focus, impulse control, and emotional regulation. For many families, protecting sleep is the most important first boundary.

Consider:

Charging phones outside the bedroom.
Using an alarm clock instead of a phone.
Creating a screen-off wind-down routine.
Keeping school-night rules consistent.
Modeling similar habits as adults.

Expect resistance! Resistance does not mean the boundary is wrong, but it can show that the phone has become emotionally important.

Replace the Function, Not Just the Device

Taking away a phone or device without replacing the function it serves can lead to more conflict. Think of that starter conversation when you ask to understand what the phone is helping her with. This answer can help guide healthy replacements for devices.

If your daughter uses screens to calm down, she needs other ways to calm her body. If she uses screens to feel connected, she needs safer forms of connection. If she uses screens to avoid boredom, shame, cravings, or anxiety, she needs help tolerating those feelings without escaping every time.

Offline replacements may include movement, art, music, photography, writing, time with animals, volunteering, cooking, baking, nature-based activities, in-person friend time, or family rituals that are not centered on correction.

In this day and age, the goal is not a screen-free life. A healthy goal is a life where screens are no longer the main coping tool.

Encourage Creative and Educational Tech Use

Not all tech use is equal! A teen creating music, learning design, nurturing healthy friendships, researching a passion, or using technology for school is engaging differently than a teen caught in endless comparison, conflict, or avoidance.

Ask reflective questions:

“Do you feel better or worse after using this app?”
“Are you creating or consuming?”
“Can you stop when you planned to stop?”
“Is this helping your goals or pulling you away from them?”
“What feeling are you trying not to feel right now?”

These questions build awareness without turning every conversation into punishment.

What to Do Next

If your daughter’s screen use feels compulsive, start with one calm conversation and one practical change.

You might say: “I don’t want to punish you for struggling. I want us to understand what is going on and help you feel more in control.”

Then choose one next step:

Move phones out of bedrooms at night.
Track emotional triggers for one week.
Ask her therapist or pediatrician about problematic screen use.
Assess whether screen use is connected to substance use, self-harm, school refusal, or unsafe online behavior.
Seek a higher level of care if home limits are not enough.

If your daughter’s screen use is connected to substance use, self-harm, school refusal, emotional outbursts, unsafe online behavior, or repeated failed attempts to cut back, Solstice West RTC can help your family explore whether residential treatment may be the right next step.

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FAQs

Is screen addiction a real addiction?

“Screen addiction” is not an official DSM-5 diagnosis. Still, clinicians and researchers often use terms like problematic screen use, addictive screen use, digital addiction, or gaming-related addictive behaviors. The concern is not the label alone. The concern is whether a teen feels unable to stop and keeps using screens despite harm to sleep, school, relationships, mood, safety, or family trust.

How do I know if my daughter has screen addiction or just likes her phone?

Look at the function it serves and the consequences it’s bringing. If she can easily remove herself from her phone, sleeps well, keeps up with school, enjoys offline life, and uses screens in balanced ways, it may not be addiction. If she cannot stop, hides use, becomes highly distressed offline, loses sleep, avoids “real life”, or uses screens to numb emotions, the pattern may be more concerning.

Can screen addiction be treated in IOP?

Sometimes. IOP may help when screen addiction overlaps with anxiety, depression, family conflict, early substance use, or school problems, but the teen can remain safe at home. IOP gives teens structured support while they practice healthier habits in daily life.

When does screen addiction require residential treatment?

Residential treatment may be appropriate when screen addiction is connected to serious safety concerns, substance use, self-harm, suicidal thoughts, unsafe online relationships, school refusal, aggression, trauma symptoms, or repeated failed attempts to reduce use at home. A licensed professional can help determine the right level of care.

Is screen addiction connected to substance use?

It can be. Screen addiction and substance use are different concerns, but both may function as ways to escape distress, seek reward, or manage painful emotions. Digital spaces may also expose teens to risky peer groups or substance-related content. A clinical assessment can help determine whether both issues need treatment.

Crisis and safety note

This article is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or crisis care. If your teen may hurt herself or someone else, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room. In the U.S., call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Families outside the U.S. should contact local emergency services or a regional crisis hotline. For diagnosis or treatment recommendations, consult a licensed mental health professional.

References

American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. (2026). Screen time and children. https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Facts_for_Families/FFF-Guide/Children-And-Watching-TV-054.aspx

American Academy of Pediatrics. (2025). Screen time guidelines. Center of Excellence on Social Media and Youth Mental Health. https://www.aap.org/en/patient-care/media-and-children/center-of-excellence-on-social-media-and-youth-mental-health/qa-portal/qa-portal-library/qa-portal-library-questions/screen-time-guidelines/

American Psychiatric Association. (2013). Substance-related and addictive disorders. https://www.psychiatry.org/File%20Library/Psychiatrists/Practice/DSM/APA_DSM-5-Substance-Use-Disorder.pdf

American Psychiatric Association. (2013). Internet gaming disorder. https://www.psychiatry.org/File%20Library/Psychiatrists/Practice/DSM/APA_DSM-5-Internet-Gaming-Disorder.pdf

Basenach, L., Renneberg, B., Salbach, H., Dreier, M., & Wölfling, K. (2023). Systematic reviews and meta-analyses of treatment interventions for Internet use disorders: Critical analysis of the methodical quality according to the PRISMA guidelines. Journal of Behavioral Addictions, 12(1), 1–17. https://doi.org/10.1556/2006.2022.00087

Prospective association between screen use modalities and substance use experimentation in early adolescents. (2024). Drug and Alcohol Dependence. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0376871624014297

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Trauma‑Informed Schools: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Your Child Learn Again

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What this guide covers:
Trauma can make even a “good” school feel overwhelming for a child. This guide helps parents understand what a trauma-informed school actually looks like, why it’s often a better fit for kids who’ve been through hard things, how to tell when school isn’t enough, and when a therapeutic program like Solstice West RTC may be the right next step.

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Trauma-Informed Schools & Therapeutic Programs: A Parent Guide

If your child has been through something hard—a serious accident, medical trauma, family violence, loss, or ongoing stress—school can suddenly feel like a minefield. You might see more stomachaches, school refusal, meltdowns over small changes, or calls from the nurse that “they just don’t feel well.”

It’s easy to wonder:
Is this just teen behavior… or is it a trauma response? Can school actually help?

This guide will help you:

Understand what a trauma-informed school is (and why it can be a better fit for kids with trauma)
Recognize how trauma shows up at school
Know when a therapeutic school may be needed
See how Solstice West RTC builds trauma-informed classrooms within a therapeutic program

Large national surveys show that about three in four U.S. high-school students report at least one adverse childhood experience (ACE), and nearly one in five report four or more—and higher ACE counts are strongly linked with mental-health symptoms and school-related risks like substance use and suicidality.

Teachers can build positive relationships with students and often notice changes in behavior.

Quick answer: What is a trauma-informed school?

A trauma-informed school is one where adults understand how stress and adversity affect learning and behavior, and use that knowledge to shape the entire environment. Core elements include:

Safety and trust (clear rules, predictable routines, emotionally safe staff)
Awareness of trauma and how it affects attention, emotions, behavior, and health
Strong relationships and co-regulation between adults and students
Student voice and choice in age-appropriate ways
Family partnership and culturally responsive practices

Behavior is seen as communication, not just “good” or “bad,” and responses focus on skill-building and avoiding re-traumatization instead of relying only on punishment.

Put simply, a trauma-informed school is designed so that a child’s nervous system can calm down enough to feel safe and learn.

Why trauma makes school so hard

Trauma can change how a child’s brain and body handle:

Even normal school environments can overwhelm a sensitized nervous system.

Attention and working memory
Sleep and energy levels
Emotion regulation and impulse control

National guidance notes that after trauma, many children struggle with concentration, become more easily startled, and are more likely to experience physical complaints and sleep disruption—all of which interfere with school tasks.

In a busy school day with bells, crowds, tests, and social pressure, that can show up as:

Big reactions to small changes (a substitute teacher, a seating change)
Trouble starting or finishing multi-step tasks
Withdrawing from friends or refusing certain classes (presentations, PE)
Frequent visits to the nurse or calls home to be picked up

None of this means your child is broken or “just being difficult.” It usually means their body and brain are working extra hard to stay safe in an environment that feels unpredictable or overwhelming.

Children’s responses to trauma: emotional, behavioral, and physical

Major organizations like NIMH, SAMHSA, and CDC describe a wide range of normal responses after trauma, which can vary by age and may last for days to weeks.

Emotional responses

Patterns of behavior can show deeper connection to trauma.

Increased fear, anxiety, or worrying about safety
Sadness, guilt, or shame about what they did or didn’t do
Irritability, anger, or feeling emotionally “numb”

Behavioral responses

Clinginess (younger children) or withdrawal (older kids and teens)
Regression (bed-wetting, baby talk, needing more help)
Trouble concentrating and forgetfulness
Regression in academic skills or work quality
Risk-taking, including substance use (especially in teens)

Physical responses

Trouble falling asleep or staying asleep; nightmares
Sleeping much more than usual
Ongoing headaches, stomachaches, or GI issues without a clear medical cause

NIMH emphasizes that many of these reactions improve over time with support and routine, but that persistent symptoms beyond about a month, or severe reactions at any time, are reasons to seek professional help.

In the classroom, this may look like late or missing work, zoning out, skipping class, drama with peers, or constant nurse visits, layered on top of either withdrawal or acting out.

What makes a school truly trauma-informed?

You’ll see “trauma-informed” on a lot of websites now. The question is whether it matches evidence-based frameworks like those from the National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN).

Here’s what to look for and ask about:

1. Routines and predictability

The day’s schedule is posted and reviewed.
Staff preview changes (assemblies, drills, substitute teachers).
Transitions have clear, consistent steps.

NCTSN’s system framework highlights predictable routines as a core part of trauma-informed school environments because predictability helps regulate students’ stress responses.

2. Relationships and co-regulation

Teachers model basic regulation skills (brief breathing or stretch breaks).
When a child escalates, the first move is connection and calming, not punishment.
Adults greet students by name and notice when something is off.

SAMHSA’s guidance for children and youth after traumatic events stresses that supportive, calm adults are the key factor in helping kids cope, which is exactly what good co-regulation provides.

Teen girls can be good at masking symptoms. Teachers who prioritize relationship-based teaching can help spot changes in behavior.

3. Voice, choice, and agency

Students get small but real choices (order of tasks, project format, partner options).
There are clear ways to ask for a break or support without being shamed.

Choice increases a sense of control, which is especially important for kids whose control was taken away during trauma.

4. De-escalation spaces that teach skills

Some classrooms or schools use a “calm corner” or quiet space. In a trauma-informed school, this space is:

Taught like any other routine (when to use it, how long, what to do there)
Filled with tools that build skills (visual timer, movement, sensory supports), not just a place to escape work

5. Instruction that lowers overload

Directions are chunked into smaller steps with visuals.
Lessons include short regulation breaks (stretch, breathe, stand and talk).

For a dysregulated brain, this can be the difference between “I can’t” and “I can try.”

6. Restorative, not purely punitive, discipline

Instead of “What’s wrong with you?” a trauma-informed school asks:

“What happened? Who was affected? What do you need to repair and move forward?”

NCTSN and other school safety organizations encourage restorative approaches to reduce exclusionary discipline and keep kids connected to learning, which is protective for mental health.

How parents can support their child right now

Even in a great trauma-informed school, home routines matter.

Co-regulation and structure

After trauma, kids need more connection and consistency, not fewer rules. Best practices emphasize keeping routines as normal as possible while offering extra reassurance and support.

Keep wake times, bedtimes, and school routines as steady as you reasonably can.
Use calm, clear limits: “It’s okay to feel angry. It’s not okay to hit. Let’s find a safe way to let it out.”
Pair correction with connection: “That wasn’t okay, and I’m still right here with you.”

Quick script before school

“Let’s do two slow breaths together, then we’ll walk to the car. You don’t have to like everything about today. You just have to take the next step. I’m with you.”

Talk with teachers in a way that builds partnership

You don’t have to share everything. Focus on what teachers need to know to respond well:

One line about what’s hard
One or two things that help
A clear ask

Email template

Hi [Teacher’s Name],

[Child] recently went through a difficult event. Since then, they’ve been more anxious and may struggle with changes in routine or loud settings.

What helps: a brief heads-up before big changes and a 2–3 minute break to reset.
Could we set up a simple plan and a quick check-in in a few weeks to see how it’s going? I appreciate your support so much.

When school supports aren’t enough: signs your child might need a therapeutic school

Sometimes, even with solid trauma-informed practices and outpatient therapy, a child’s needs go beyond what a traditional school can safely provide.

Consider talking with your child’s providers about a therapeutic school (day or residential) if you see patterns like:

Safety concerns at school (frequent crisis events, running away, serious self-harm or aggression)
Ongoing school refusal despite consistent efforts and supports
Multiple suspensions, alternative placements, or “soft pushes” to leave
Trauma symptoms thataren’t improving after several months of therapy and school accommodations
Your child needing intensive therapeutic work that can’t fit into evenings and weekends
School staff saying, “We’re trying, but we don’t have the level of support they really need.”

These are the situations where a therapeutic school—integrating academics, intensive therapy, and 24/7 milieu support—may offer the level of containment and treatment your child needs.

The American Academy of Pediatrics’ policy on trauma-informed care points out that systems often need to adjust intensity and environment to match the level of adversity and symptoms; sometimes that means a more specialized setting for a period of time.

What to look for in a therapeutic school

Whether you’re considering Solstice West RTC or another program, look for:

Trauma-informed classrooms
- Routine and predictability
- Co-regulation and strong teacher-student relationships
- Skill-focused de-escalation spaces
Licensed teachers and a clear academic plan that can coordinate with your home district
Integrated clinical support (individual, family, and group therapy)
Family involvement and transition planning back to home or a less intensive setting

This mirrors what NCTSN describes as a tiered, trauma-informed school system: universal practices for everyone, plus more intensive interventions for students with higher needs.

How Solstice West supports students with trauma at school

At Solstice West RTC in Layton, Utah:

Instruction is provided by Utah-licensed educators in small, trauma-informed classrooms.
Our academic program is listed on the California Department of Education’s out-of-state nonpublic school directory and on Washington’s OSPI-approved nonpublic agency list for education placements (districts can verify current status on those official sites).

In the classroom, that looks like:

Daily routines and previewed schedule changes
Teachers trained in trauma-informed practices and co-regulation, not just content
Calm, structured spaces for students to practice regulation skills without losing dignity
Voice and choice in assignments and projects, so students rebuild a sense of control
Close collaboration between therapists, teachers, and families on goals and accommodations

Our team also works with home districts to plan:

Credit transfer
504/IEP coordination
Step-down options and re-entry plans, so gains made here transfer back home

The overall approach aligns with AAP’s trauma-informed care recommendations—strengthening relationships, buffering adversity, and promoting healthy development.

When to seek professional help (beyond school changes)

Reach out to your child’s healthcare provider or a licensed mental-health professional if:

Symptoms last longer than 2–4 weeks or are still strong after about a month
Reactions get worse instead of slowly improving
Problems interfere with school, friendships, or family life
There are ongoing physical complaints without a clear medical cause

Reach out immediately (same day; emergency services if needed) if you notice:

Talk of self-harm or suicide
Dangerous risk-taking or substance use
Severe school refusal combined with major withdrawal
Behavior that makes you fear for your child’s safety or someone else’s

For urgent emotional support in the U.S., you can call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) any time.

What to do next

Spot patterns, not one-off bad days. Use the emotional/behavioral/physical lists above.
Ask your child’s school: “What trauma-informed supports are already in place for my child, and what else could we try?”
If school struggles continue, request a 504/IEP evaluation in writing and set a date to review progress.
If your child’s needs are beyond what school and outpatient care can safely hold, talk with your child’s providers about therapeutic school options, including whether Solstice West RTC might be an appropriate next step.

You don’t have to figure this out alone. A good trauma-informed school or therapeutic program will treat you as a partner, not a problem.

Talk With Our Team About the Right Next Step

If your teen is struggling with trauma symptoms, our admissions team can help you understand options and whether Solstice West may be the right fit.

Contact Our Team

Call Now

Confidential support for families. We’re here to help you get clarity.

Crisis and safety note

If you or your child is in immediate danger or is considering self-harm, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.

For 24/7 support in the United States, you can call or text 988 or chat via the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. If you are outside the U.S., please contact your local emergency number or national crisis service. This article is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for medical or mental-health advice.

References

National Institute of Mental Health. (n.d.). Helping children and adolescents cope with traumatic events. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Retrieved 2025. (National Institute of Mental Health)
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. (2012). Tips for talking with and helping children and youth cope after a disaster or traumatic event: A guide for parents, caregivers, and teachers (HHS Publication No. SMA-12-4732). (SAMHSA Library)
National Child Traumatic Stress Network. (2017, updated 2021). Creating, supporting, and sustaining trauma-informed schools: A system framework. (NCTSN)
American Academy of Pediatrics. (2021). Trauma-informed care in child health systems. Pediatrics, 148(2), e2021052579.https://doi.org/10.1542/peds.2021-052579 (AAP Publications)
Swedo, E. A., et al. (2024). Adverse childhood experiences and health conditions and risk behaviors among high school students—Youth Risk Behavior Survey, United States, 2023. MMWR Supplements, 73(4), 39–49.https://doi.org/10.15585/mmwr.su7304a5 (CDC)
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention / Agency for Toxic Substances and Disease Registry. (2019). Helping children and adolescents cope with traumatic events. (ATSDR)

The Solstice Team

Solstice West is a residential treatment center for adolescent girls ages 12–18, specializing in addictive and compulsive behaviors rooted in trauma, attachment, anxiety, and depression. The program serves all-gender adolescents who identify as female, including nonbinary and transgender AFAB students. Solstice West’s relationship-based, trauma-informed approach incorporates DBT, CBT, EMDR, Brainspotting, Somatic Experiencing, experiential therapy, and family systems work. The program is fully licensed by the State of Utah, accredited by Cognia and CARF, and recognized by California and Washington State for academic credit transfer. Solstice West is located at 1904 W Gordon Ave, Layton, UT 84041.

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Helping a Teen With Addictive Behaviors: Signs, Support Options, and When Inpatient Care Is the Right Step

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What this guide covers:
Addictive behaviors in teens are often signs of emotional distress, trauma, or difficulty regulating stress.
This comprehensive guide helps parents recognize warning signs, talk with their teen effectively, and understand when outpatient support is enough or when residential treatment may be the most supportive next step.

When a teenager develops addictive or compulsive behaviors such as phone use, vaping, self-harm, disordered eating, gaming, sexual promiscuity, or experimenting with substances, families are often left asking the same questions:

Is this just a phase?
Are we being too strict? Or not strict enough?
How do we help without making things worse?

Addictive behaviors in teens are rarely about rebellion or lack of willpower. More often, they are signals. Attempts to cope with emotional pain, overwhelm, trauma, or nervous system dysregulation that a teen doesn’t yet know how to manage in healthier ways.

This comprehensive guide is designed to help families:

Understand what addictive behaviors really mean in adolescents
Recognize when support at home or outpatient care may no longer be enough
Know what effective treatment looks like and when inpatient care becomes appropriate

On This Page — Table of Contents

What Are Addictive Behaviors in Teens?
Is an “Addictive Personality” a Real Diagnosis for Teens?
- Common teen addictive or compulsive behaviors
What Causes Addictive Behaviors in Teenagers?
What Environmental Triggers Make Teen Addictive Behaviors Worse?
What Are the Warning Signs of Addictive Behaviors in Teens?
How to Talk to a Teen About Addictive Behaviors?
- More effective approaches
- A helpful mindset shift for parents
How Do You Set Boundaries With a Teen Who Has Addictive Behaviors?
What Treatment Options Are Available for Teens With Addictive Behaviors?
- Common Levels of Care
When Is Outpatient Therapy Not Enough for a Teen?
How Do You Know If a Teen Needs Residential Treatment?
- What Effective Residential Treatment for Teens Looks Like
- Evidence-Based and Holistic Approaches That Support Teen Recovery
How Does Solstice West Treat Addictive Behaviors Differently?
How Families Can Take the Next Step
Supporting Long-Term Recovery After Treatment
A Final Word to Parents
Frequently Asked Questions

What Are Addictive Behaviors in Teens?

Addictive behaviors in teens are repeated actions such as substance use, self-harm, or compulsive technology use that a teenager relies on to cope with emotional distress, stress, or overwhelm. These behaviors are adaptive strategies that temporarily regulate feelings the teen cannot yet manage in healthier ways.

Is an “Addictive Personality” a Real Diagnosis for Teens?

The phrase “addictive personality” is commonly searched, but it can be misleading, especially for adolescents.

Teens do not have fixed personalities. Their brains are still developing, particularly the areas responsible for impulse control, emotional regulation, and long-term decision-making. What looks like an “addictive personality” is more accurately understood as:

A coping strategy that works temporarily
A response to emotional distress or stress overload
A nervous system seeking regulation or relief

Common teen addictive or compulsive behaviors include:

Substance use (alcohol, marijuana, vaping, prescription misuse)
Self-harm or compulsive risk-taking
Disordered eating behaviors
Compulsive gaming, phone, or social media use
Internet or pornography use

In clinical settings, the focus is not just on stopping the behavior, but on understanding why the behavior became necessary.

What Causes Addictive Behaviors in Teenagers?

Teen addictive behaviors are usually driven by a combination of emotional, psychological, and developmental factors rather than a single cause. Trauma, chronic stress, mental health conditions, and difficulties with emotional regulation commonly contribute to why a teen turns to addictive or compulsive coping strategies.

Causes may include:

Trauma, loss, or attachment disruptions
Anxiety, depression, or mood instability
Difficulty regulating emotions or stress
Peer pressure or social isolation
Neurodiversity (ADHD, ASD, executive functioning challenges)
Family history of addiction or mental health concerns

Adolescents are especially vulnerable because their brains are highly sensitive to reward and stress while still developing the skills needed to tolerate discomfort without escaping it.

The behavior is rarely the core problem. It is simply the ‘solution’ the teen has found.

What Environmental Triggers Make Teen Addictive Behaviors Worse?

Environmental triggers are external situations or influences that increase urges, intensify behaviors, or make recovery more difficult for teens. These triggers often interact with internal stress and can significantly impact how often addictive behaviors occur and how hard they are to change.

Common environmental and social triggers include:

Peer influence: Spending time with friends who engage in the same addictive behaviors can normalize or reinforce use.
Social media and online culture: Influencers, trends, or online communities that glamorize substance use, self-harm, or risky behaviors can increase urges and distort norms.
Family stress or conflict: Ongoing parental conflict, high emotional reactivity, or contentious co-parenting can increase emotional overload.
Academic pressure or failure: Chronic stress, learning differences, or falling behind at school can drive avoidance or numbing behaviors.
Lack of structure or supervision: Inconsistent routines or unclear expectations can leave teens vulnerable during moments of stress or boredom.

While parents cannot eliminate all triggers, modifying the environment and increasing support often reduces the intensity and frequency of addictive behaviors. It can also help clarify when outside help is needed.

What Are the Warning Signs of Addictive Behaviors in Teens?

Warning signs of addictive behaviors in teens often appear as patterns of behavioral, emotional, academic, and physical changes that persist or get worse over time. While individual signs may seem typical in adolescence, clusters of changes usually signal a deeper struggle that needs attention.

Common warning signs include:

Behavioral changes: Increased secrecy, lying, irritability, mood swings, or emotional shutdown
Academic struggles: Falling grades, skipping classes, loss of focus, or school avoidance
Social changes: New peer groups, distancing from longtime friends, withdrawing from family, or loss of interest in previously enjoyed activities
Physical symptoms: Changes in sleep patterns, appetite, hygiene, or physical appearance
Risk-taking behaviors: Escalating rule-breaking, unsafe choices, or impulsive decisions
Emotional indicators: Hopelessness, low self-worth, heightened anxiety, or emotional numbness

One sign alone may not be cause for alarm. Persistent, escalating, or clustered signs over time are what warrant closer attention and professional guidance.

Parent and teen discussion about mental health support

How to Talk to a Teen About Addictive Behaviors?

Talking to a teen about addictive behaviors is most effective when the focus is on understanding rather than control. Approaching the conversation with curiosity, calmness, and empathy increases the likelihood that teens will engage honestly instead of becoming defensive or withdrawn.

More effective approaches include:

Leading with curiosity instead of accusation
Naming concern without labeling or diagnosing
Separating your teen from the behavior (“This isn’t who you are”)
Listening more than explaining in early conversations
Avoiding ultimatums unless safety requires them

A helpful mindset shift for parents:

The goal isn’t to convince your teen to stop, but to understand what the behavior is doing for them.

This approach builds trust and creates openings for change rather than secrecy.

How Do You Set Boundaries With a Teen Who Has Addictive Behaviors?

When a teen is struggling with addictive or compulsive behaviors, parents are often told to “set boundaries”, but that advice can feel vague or even confusing. Many families end up relying on rules alone, which can unintentionally increase power struggles, secrecy, and emotional reactivity.

Understanding the difference between rules and boundaries is key.

Rules vs. Boundaries: What’s the Difference?

Rules are about controlling behavior. Rules focus on what someone else must or must not do.

Examples of rules:

“You are not allowed to vape.”
“You can’t be on your phone after 9 p.m.”
“If you break curfew, you’re grounded.”

Rules can be useful, especially around safety, but on their own they often trigger resistance in teens who are already struggling with impulse control or emotional regulation.

Boundaries, on the other hand, are about what parents will do to protect safety, stability, and the relationship. Boundaries focus on your response, not controlling someone else’s choices.

Examples of boundaries:

“I won’t provide rides or money if substances are involved.”
“I’m available to talk when voices are calm; I’ll step away if things escalate.”
“I’ll be holding onto medications, substances, and anything that could be misused so I can help keep you safe.”

Boundaries don’t require a teen’s agreement to work. They are enforceable because they are rooted in parental responsibility and action, not the teen’s compliance.

Why Boundaries Matter More Than Rules for Addictive Behaviors

Teens using addictive behaviors often rely on those behaviors to regulate stress, emotions, or internal discomfort. When parents rely solely on rules, teens may:

Argue or negotiate endlessly
Hide behavior rather than reduce it
Experience increased shame or defensiveness

Healthy boundaries help because they:

Reduce chaos and emotional reactivity
Protect the parent–child relationship
Create predictability and containment
Support nervous system regulation
Shift parents out of constant monitoring and enforcement

When families find themselves constantly negotiating or walking on eggshells, it may signal that the family system needs more support, not that parents are failing.

Turning Rules Into Boundaries: Practical Examples

The goal isn’t to eliminate rules entirely but to anchor rules with boundaries that reduce power struggles and increase safety. Here’s how a rule can be reframed into a boundary:

Rule	Boundary
“You’re not allowed to use substances.”	“I can’t allow substances in our home, and if I find them, I’ll remove them and revisit what support you need.”
“You have to tell me everything.”	“I’m here to talk when you’re ready, and I’ll check in regularly because your safety matters.”
“No phones after 9.”	“As a family, we will charge our phones in the kitchen overnight to support sleep and help us stay off screens overnight.”

Sample Scripts for Setting Boundaries With Compassion

Many parents know what they want to say but have a hard time saying it calmly and consistently. The framework below helps parents communicate boundaries without escalating conflict.

Love: “I love you, and I care deeply about your safety and well-being.”
Truth: “I’m seeing behaviors that tell me you’re struggling, and it’s my job to respond instead of ignoring them.”
Responsibility: “This is what I can and can’t do as your parent.”
Choice: “You get to make your own choices. I’ll respond in ways that keep things safe.”
Follow-Through: “If this boundary isn’t respected, here’s what I’ll do next.”

Example in Practice

Boundary setting with compassion illustration

“I love you and I know things have been really hard lately. Because you and your safety matter to me, I can’t give you access to money when substances are involved. You get to decide what you do, but I’ll follow through on this boundary consistently.”

This approach:

Reduces lectures
Avoids threats
Keeps responsibility where it belongs
Preserves connection even during conflict

Boundaries are not punishments. They are healthy expressions of care, clarity, and parental leadership. This is especially true when a teen is overwhelmed or dysregulated.

If boundaries feel impossible to hold, or if holding them escalates behavior rather than reducing it, that doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong. It may mean your teen needs more support than the family system can provide alone.

What Treatment Options Are Available for Teens With Addictive Behaviors?

Treatment options for teens with addictive behaviors vary based on intensity, safety, and the teen’s ability to function outside of therapy. Common options range from outpatient therapy to intensive outpatient programs and residential treatment, each offering different levels of structure and support.

Common Levels of Care

Outpatient therapy: Weekly sessions; appropriate for mild, early concerns
Intensive outpatient programs (IOP): Multiple sessions per week while living at home
Residential treatment: 24/7 therapeutic environment with integrated clinical care

Each level has its place in the continuum of care. Effectiveness depends on severity, safety, and the teen’s ability to regulate outside of sessions.

When Is Outpatient Therapy Not Enough for a Teen?

Outpatient therapy may not be enough when addictive behaviors continue to escalate, disrupt daily life, or feel unsafe despite consistent support. In these cases, teens often need a more structured environment to stabilize and build coping skills effectively.

How Do You Know If a Teen Needs Residential Treatment?

Residential treatment may be appropriate when:

Addictive behaviors persist despite outpatient therapy
The teen cannot remain emotionally or physically safe at home
Substance use or compulsive behaviors are escalating
Mental health symptoms dominate daily functioning
Family relationships are becoming highly reactive or fractured
School engagement has significantly declined

What Effective Residential Treatment for Teens Looks Like

High-quality adolescent treatment addresses the whole person, not just the behavior.

Effective programs include:

Trauma-informed, relationship-based care
Integrated treatment for co-occurring mental health conditions
Evidence-based therapies (DBT, CBT, EMDR, somatic approaches)
Emotional regulation and nervous system support
Family therapy and parent involvement
Academic continuity and confidence rebuilding

Teens need practice, repetition, and support in a structured environment.

Evidence-Based and Holistic Approaches That Support Teen Recovery

Effective treatment for teen addictive behaviors integrates multiple therapeutic approaches, tailored to the adolescent’s needs.

Some evidence-based modalities include:

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Teaches emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and impulse control skills
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helps teens recognize and change unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors
NeuroAffective Relational Model™ (NARM®): Addresses attachment patterns, relational stress, and nervous system dysregulation that often drive addictive or compulsive coping
Trauma-focused therapies (such as EMDR and somatic approaches): Address unresolved trauma that often underlies addictive behaviors
Motivational interviewing and harm-reduction approaches: Support teens who feel ambivalent about change without relying on shame or pressure

In addition, many effective programs incorporate holistic supports such as:

Mindfulness and body-based regulation practices
Physical movement and exercise
Creative or experiential therapies
Life skills and executive functioning support

Family therapy is a critical component, helping caregivers learn how to respond effectively, rebuild trust, and support long-term change at home.

How Does Solstice West Treat Addictive Behaviors Differently?

Solstice West treats addictive behaviors as coping strategies rooted in emotional and relational challenges rather than isolated problems or moral failures. Treatment focuses on addressing underlying causes, building regulation skills, and involving families so progress can continue beyond residential care.

Key elements of our evidence-based approach include:

Meeting teens where they are, using harm-reduction and motivational frameworks
Treating the why behind the behavior alongside the behavior itself
A dedicated substance use and compulsive behaviors track
Integration of trauma therapy, emotional regulation, and family work
A small, relationship-based environment with intensive clinical support

The end goal is not simply quitting the behavior, but building capacity. We want our clients to develop the ability to feel, cope, connect, and make healthier choices over time. This helps teens have agency to make the changes themselves.

How Families Can Take the Next Step

If you are wondering whether residential treatment may be appropriate, consider these questions:

Is our current level of support creating real change?
Is our teen becoming more regulated or more distressed over time?
Are safety, trust, or stability increasingly at risk?

Speaking with an experienced admissions or clinical team can help clarify options and next steps.

Supporting Long-Term Recovery After Treatment

Support and recovery planning for families

Recovery from addictive behaviors does not end when formal treatment concludes. Maintaining progress requires continued structure, connection, and support.

Key elements of long-term success include:

A clear transition or aftercare plan
Ongoing outpatient therapy or coaching when appropriate
Family communication and boundary alignment
Supportive routines that promote regulation and accountability
Gradual reintegration into school, peers, and daily responsibilities

As professionals, we know that setbacks can occur, and they are part of learning, not failure. Progress over perfection helps teens build resilience and confidence as they move forward.

A Final Word to Parents

Choosing a higher level of care does not mean you have failed or waited too long.

Often, it means you are responding thoughtfully to what your teen actually needs.

With the right environment, support, and clinical care, adolescents can learn to regulate emotions, rebuild trust, reconnect with strengths, and develop healthier ways to cope.

Early, appropriate intervention changes lives.

Talk With Our Team About the Right Next Step

If your teen is struggling with addictive or compulsive behaviors, our admissions team can help you understand options and whether Solstice West may be the right fit.

Contact Our Team

Call Now

Confidential support for families. We’re here to help you get clarity.

Frequently Asked Questions About Teen Addictive Behaviors

What’s the difference between a habit and an addictive behavior in teens?

A habit is typically flexible and easy for a teen to stop without significant distress. An addictive behavior is more rigid, continues despite negative consequences, and is often used to regulate emotions or avoid discomfort. If stopping the behavior leads to intense distress, secrecy, or escalation, it may signal an underlying addictive pattern.

What is the difference between an addictive personality and addictive behaviors in teens?

An “addictive personality” is not a clinical diagnosis, especially for teens. Adolescents are still developing impulse control and emotional regulation. What looks like an addictive personality is more accurately a pattern of addictive behaviors used to cope with stress, trauma, anxiety, or emotional overwhelm. These patterns can change with support.

What are the early signs of addictive behaviors in teenagers?

Early signs include increased secrecy, mood swings, withdrawal from family or activities, declining school performance, changes in sleep or hygiene, and escalating emotional reactivity. While some changes are normal in adolescence, persistent or intensifying patterns often signal a deeper issue that needs closer attention or professional guidance.

How do I talk to my teen about substance use or compulsive behaviors?

Start calmly and focus on concern rather than punishment. Ask open-ended questions, listen without interrupting, and avoid labeling or ultimatums unless safety is at risk. Teens are more likely to engage honestly when they feel understood rather than judged or controlled.

When is outpatient therapy not enough for a teen with addictive behaviors?

Outpatient therapy may not be enough when behaviors escalate, interfere with daily functioning, or persist despite consistent treatment. If a teen struggles to stay safe, regulate emotions between sessions, or if family conflict continues to intensify, a higher level of care may be appropriate.

How do I know if my teen needs residential treatment?

A teen may need residential treatment when addictive behaviors continue despite outpatient care, when emotional or physical safety is at risk, or when mental health symptoms dominate daily life. Residential care provides structure and support when healing cannot occur effectively in the home environment alone.

What happens in a residential treatment center for teens?

Licensed residential treatment centers provide 24/7 therapeutic support in a structured environment. Teens receive individual, group, and family therapy, academic support, and skills training focused on emotional regulation, coping, and healthy decision-making rather than simple behavior control.

Can teens recover from addictive behaviors?

Yes. Teens can be highly responsive to treatment when underlying causes like trauma, anxiety, or emotional dysregulation are addressed. Recovery focuses on building coping skills, emotional capacity, and resilience over time, not perfection or lifelong labels.

How important is family involvement in teen addiction treatment?

Family involvement is critical for long-term success. Addictive behaviors affect the entire family system, and recovery is more sustainable when parents learn effective communication, boundary-setting, and emotional regulation strategies alongside their teen.

What types of therapy are most effective for teens with addictive behaviors?

Effective treatment often includes evidence-based therapies such as Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), the NeuroAffective Relational Model™ (NARM®), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and motivational approaches. The best outcomes occur when treatment is individualized and addresses both behaviors and co-occurring mental health needs.

Is it too early to seek treatment if my teen is unsure they want to change?

No. Many teens enter treatment feeling unsure or resistant. Effective programs meet teens where they are, using agency-based, harm-reducing approaches rather than requiring full commitment at the start. Readiness for change often develops once teens feel safe and supported.

What should parents look for in a teen treatment program?

Parents should look for licensed and accredited programs that offer evidence-based therapies, trauma-informed care, integrated mental health and addiction treatment, strong family involvement, and academic support. Clear clinical philosophy, individualized treatment, and transparent communication are key indicators of quality.

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Does Smartphone Addiction Lead to Depression or Vice Versa?

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For many teen girls a typical day looks something like this: wake up, roll over and check her phone, scroll through social media while she’s getting ready for school, text friends on their way to class, check out some TikTok videos during lunch break, catch up on anything she missed on social media after school, answer all the notifications as they come while at home, scroll through social media or watch a show on their phone while lying in bed before falling asleep. If we truly monitored the amount of time our daughters spent on their phones, the number would be staggering. But does the amount of time they spend on their phone actually have an impact on their mental health?

Typically, when we think about teens who spend a lot of time on their phones, we are more likely to wonder if they’re lonely than if they’re popular, or an up-and-coming social media influencer. This suggests that the idea of the relationship between depression and social media addiction is already imprinted in our minds, even if we don’t quite understand how they became so interconnected. New research suggests a person’s reliance on their smartphone predicts greater loneliness and depressive symptoms, as opposed to the other way around.

What Contributes to Smartphone Addiction?

When looking at the relationship between smartphone addiction and depression, these researchers decided to focus on adolescents, as rates of both issues are most prevalent among this age group. Not only have they all grown up with smartphones, but they are at a stressful stage in life where they are more vulnerable to not knowing how to cope with mental health struggles in a healthy way.

We often think that teens who don’t know who to talk to or where else to turn in life escape into a virtual world, but researchers claim that this problem starts much earlier. Many teens who spend a lot of time online recognize that social media is addictive and has affected their self-esteem, but they feel like their social reputation is tied to their online presence and therefore can’t delete their accounts.

One of the major negative effects smartphone use can have on girls’ mental health is contributing to a constant sense of comparison. They see filtered images and pictures of smiling, happy people living their best life. It is easy to see how they could begin to view their own life negatively. They may begin to question why they are not as happy or why they don’t have what other people have. This is also tied into FOMO or Fear Of Missing Out. Social media allows users to be constantly updated when the people they follow post or when they receive a like or comment. Because they fear missing out, disconnecting from their device may feel impossible.

Why Focus on Effects of Smartphone Use?

“If depression and loneliness lead to smartphone dependency, we could reduce dependency by adjusting people’s mental health,” explains study co-author Pengfei Zhao said. “But, if smartphone dependency (precedes depression and loneliness), which is what we found, we can reduce smartphone dependency to maintain or improve wellbeing.”

“We’ve really been trying to focus on this idea of dependency and problematic use of smartphones being the driver for these psychological outcomes,” describes Zhao. “There’s an issue where people are entirely too reliant on the device, in terms of feeling anxious if they don’t have it accessible, and they’re using it to the detriment of their day-to-day life.”

If we understand that smartphone use is common and, at this stage, fairly natural for young adults, how can we determine when that use has become detrimental? Here are some things to be aware of:

Withdrawing from face-to-face social interactions: Maybe you’ve noticed that your daughter quit her favorite after school club or is choosing to stay home on the weekends instead of going out to meet their friends. If she is starting to withdraw or isolate, this can be a sign that she is becoming too dependent on her technology use.
Consistent anxiety, stress: If her smartphone use is leading to mood swings or elevated levels of stress and anxiety that is a clear signal that her smartphone use has become unhealthy.
Grades begin to slip, and assignments reflect poor work or are left undone: If all of their focus is on social media, other areas of their life may begin to suffer. If your previously studious daughter has chosen to spend her evening learning a new TikTok dance instead of preparing for her tests it can lead to a negative impact on her school work.
Avoidance of real life responsibilities, such as chores or homework: For many teens, the last thing they want to do is clean their room or empty the dishwasher. But these are important parts of having healthy, balanced lives. Excessive smartphone use can quickly throw that balance off.
Ill at ease, ill-equipped or unresponsive to people in front of them: If your daughter is spending more time on her phone and less time interacting in real life, she may begin to feel uncomfortable in social situations. Like most things in life, practice is key to building skills, and without that real world practice they do not have the opportunity to build those skills.
Phones begin to create conflict in their closest relationships: What happens when you ask your daughter to put her smartphone away? Does she lash out and get angry? Does limited phone use cause an outburst? Unreasonable reactions to being separated from their smartphone may mean that she has created unhealthy habits.

Building Offline Communication Skills in Residential Treatment:

Having worked with adolescents with mental health issues for over a decade, Solstice RTC has noticed a recent increase in the number of girls and assigned female at birth we work with who have also struggled with smartphone addiction. Noticing this intersection, we have adapted our programming to help address the unhealthy ways that technology is used, expectations that teens have about their online identities, and communication skills missing from online interactions.

Raising awareness about social media addiction has become a unique part of Solstice RTC’s program by teaching parents how to handle these issues and set boundaries around electronics.

Equine Therapy: In addition to group and family therapy, we believe that equine therapy is a powerful way of teaching relational skills, like nonverbal communication and social awareness. Using body language with these sensitive animals helps students learn how to better communicate with others and build relationships.

Weekly phone calls with family: Teens today are used to having more conversations online than in person–even with their families. This depersonalized way of socializing often gets in the way of maintaining two-way conversations. While they do not have access to cell phones, students at Solstice are encouraged to make regular phone calls to friends and family members to strengthen their support system. Every week, students have the chance to video chat with their parents during therapy sessions. This helps reframe the phone as a tool and changes the wiring of the brain that feeds smartphone addiction.

Home visits offer opportunities to self-monitor social media use: Students periodically go home for a few days, prior to leaving the program, to gauge how they handle being at home with access to their cell phones and social media. Every teen has an individualized technology contract that they work on with their parents and their therapist to decide what boundaries, if any, may need to be set around healthy media use.

At Solstice RTC, our goal is to help teen girls and assigned female at birth learn how to use their phones to communicate more effectively with people without feeling like they have to be attached to their phone every second of the day. Many of the girls and assigned female at birth we work with come to our program struggling with a “fear of missing out” and describe their compulsion to “stay updated” on their online social lives all the time.

“For the most part, I can do things and have it in my pocket and not need it. Right now, it’s not that big of an issue for me. I can be by myself and be okay and I’m reconnecting with a lot of things I love. And I don’t feel empty.” -Testimonial from former student who struggled with internet addiction

Solstice RTC Can Help

Solstice is a groundbreaking residential treatment center for girls, ages 14 to 18. Our girls and assigned female at birth often struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, ADHD, technology addiction, and other emotional or behavioral problems when they come to us. Through a unique combination of therapeutic programs based upon both traditional and holistic mental health treatment, we treat our clients with age and gender-specific techniques. With a strong emphasis on family therapy based intervention, nutrition, and physical fitness, and the supportive provision of cutting-edge academics, substance abuse/addiction therapy, equine therapy, and psychiatric services. Issues such as smartphone addiction are common and treatable with the right intervention.

Solstice sets the stage for the infusion of light into the previously darkened lives of the families we serve. We strive to empower teenage people with the ability to believe in themselves offline and provide the tools and motivation required to instill these beliefs for life.

For more information about smartphone addiction, contact us at 866-278-3345.

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November 20, 2020
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Why Are Teens Addicted to Cell Phones?

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Parents of teens today are very familiar with the sight of their teen’s face bathed in the blue light coming from a cell phone, computer, or television screen. Technology today is everywhere, and many teens have near constant access to it. And while parents may worry about the amount of time their teen spends on their cell phone, when does the amount of time begin to become a real problem?

Cell Phone Addiction in Teens

A 2016 study found that 50 percent of teens “feel addicted” to mobile devices, while 59 percent of parents surveyed believe that kids are addicted to their devices. This survey also showed that 72 percent of teens and 48 percent of parents feel the need to immediately respond to texts, social-networking messages, and other notifications; 69 percent of parents and 78 percent of teens check their devices at least hourly.

One of the ways cell phones create an addictive feedback loop is through the apps that teens download. Social media platforms such as Instagram and TikTok, games, and even text messages give users a little jolt of dopamine every time they receive a “like”, comment, or message. This dose of “happy hormone” encourages teens to come back again and again to get that feeling, and as a result, they begin to need more of those interactions to get back to the equivalent of that initial jolt.

Signs and symptoms of cell phone addiction may include: continued excessive use despite negative effects in their life, withdrawing from family or shared events in favor of cell phone use, impulsive, frequent checking of their phone, insomnia or sleep deprivation due to excessive use, anxiety, and depression.

We understand that in today’s world, teens use their cell phones for a variety of reasons, both recreational and academic, so it can help to focus less on counting the minutes of use, and focus instead on how they are using their phone. It is important to teach them how to have a healthy balance in their cell phone use. To do that, parents must first understand how their teen is using their phone and what purpose it serves them. If your teen is spending hours on social media platforms or gaming, speak with them about how their behaviors are negatively affecting their lives. For example, if they are staying up late on their phone chatting, they may wake up tired and be unable to perform during the school day or in their extracurricular activities. You can also help them to create healthy boundaries around their phone use, but if they are unable to stay within these boundaries, it may be time to seek out professional help.

Solstice RTC Can Help

Solstice RTC helps teen students with a variety of issues. We often treat students struggling with challenges related to past traumas, loss, and attachment issues. Our goal is to equip them with the tools needed to lead happy, successful lives. We provide a nurturing and welcoming environment for teenage students and help them recognize that they are on the cusp of something wonderful: the chance to heal from their past and become the best version of themselves. For more information please call (866) 278-3345.

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March 11, 2020
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Navigating Online Relationships for Teens with Social Anxiety

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Social media is no longer just for networking with friends and family. In fact, many teens follow more influencers than people they know online. In order to go “viral” on a platform, their posts have to be public. As digital privacy becomes less important to teens, many teens are becoming more digitally intimate–sharing personal details online to people they don’t know in person. For teens with social anxiety who find it easier to develop online relationships than with their peers offline, it is important to remember that navigating online relationships requires different social rules.

Why Does Socializing Online Feel Safer for Some Teens?

More anonymity
Delayed response time
Can use filters, Photoshop, or a fake name
Less expectation of intimacy
Less fear of rejection
Wider circle of acquaintances

For some teens who have experienced rejection and isolation offline, they may feel more comfortable interacting with others through a screen. Even if they recognize that their online relationships aren’t healthy or that the other person isn’t putting in enough effort, they may continue to pursue this relationship as online rejection hurts less than face-to-face rejection. If someone were to reject them online, it is not like the entire school would find out and shame them.

Another benefit of socializing online for teens with social anxiety is that, in some ways, they might experience less Fear of Missing Out. They are able to maintain a wider circle of acquaintances and keep tabs on what is going on in the lives of people they know without being expected to start a conversation or make plans. This can reduce feelings of isolation and loneliness.

Online socializing can help anxious teens maintain relationships with acquaintances that they may have struggled to make the effort to see, if they go to different schools or live in different cities. It can also help them develop stronger relationships with people that they may be too anxious to talk to at school. For example, introverted teens may prefer texting someone back and forth than picking up the phone or meeting someone at a coffeeshop for the same conversation, let alone trying to have the same conversation in front of a bigger group of people. Some people find it easier to make a generic post to their “followers” instead of sending the same text multiple times or starting a group chat with a restricted number of people, as they never know who might respond.

What Are the Risks Associated with Socializing Online?

Presenting a false self
Difficulty engaging in face-to-face interactions
Problems identifying red flags
Sexting
Getting catfished

Social anxiety is often a predictor of internet addiction. Ironically, the more time teens spend worrying about how they are perceived online, the more likely they are to update their newsfeed or check for new notifications. One would think that the anxiety they experience around their social media presence would discourage them from being glued to their screens, but the opposite is usually true. The potential validation they might receive from online interactions often outweighs potential threats or hate messages.

How is Online Socializing Different from Offline Socializing?

Privacy Issues
Lack of Nonverbal Cues
Conversations cannot be permanently deleted
Hard to fully trust that the other person is being transparent
People are more likely to perform for an online audience

At a relationship-based residential treatment center for girls, teens learn how to be present with others offline and to interact without the distraction of smartphones. Many teens with social anxiety have developed insecurities in relationships based on past negative experiences with peers at school. In order to change beliefs about not being good enough in relationships, they must confront these beliefs and build evidence that this is not always true.

Teens who had previously turned to the Internet to receive validation learn that they are liked by others when they act like their true selves. During group therapy, teens with social anxiety learn how to actively listen to others, ask for help, and provide mutual support as they discuss their relationship styles and how they developed these beliefs. This can lead to conversations about values in relationships, online safety, and ways to manage anxiety.

Solstice RTC Can Help

Solstice is a groundbreaking residential treatment center for girls, ages 14 to 18. Our girls and assigned female at birth often struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, ADHD, technology addiction, and other emotional or behavioral problems when they come to us. Through a unique combination of therapeutic programs based upon both traditional and holistic mental health treatment, we treat our clients with age and gender-specific techniques. We strive to empower teenage people with the ability to believe in themselves offline and provide the tools and motivation required to instill these beliefs for life.

For more information about smartphone addiction, contact us at 866-278-3345.

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May 8, 2019
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Is Your Daughter’s Addiction to Instagram Likes Affecting Her Ability to Feel Well-Liked?

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Instagram just proposed that they would start hiding likes from other viewers in an attempt to empower users to use it as a platform of self-expression rather than self-comparison. Younger generations are more drawn to social media apps like Instagram where they can interact with celebrities, businesses, and influencers than websites like Facebook, where they share personal updates with friends and family. When you feel child is addicted to Instagram, it changes how you should react as a family.

As posts reach a wider audience and their feed is updated more frequently, it is not uncommon if your child has become addicted to scrolling through Instagram. For teens struggling with self-esteem and connection, Instagram provides the illusion of validation through likes and comments; but, the more teens post and put themselves out there online, the less connected they often feel offline.

Isn’t everyone addicted to their phone?

With smartphones, we carry access to the whole world in our hands. According to a recent New York Times article, “most people check their smartphones 150 times per day, or every six minutes.” Each time we pick up our phone, we get sucked into a vortex of selfies, articles, emails, and endless scrolling. Teens spend an average of nine hours a day staring at a screen and most of them are worried they spend too much time on their phones. Like all addictions, technology convinces us that we need it and we can’t live without the identities we’ve built online. Although technology gives us access to more information, improves productivity, and helps us to connect with others, it can have a significant impact on our self-esteem, relationships, and digital safety.

Potential Harm caused by Instagram

Social media is just another form of media that can offer fake news, unrealistic role models, and awareness of violence in society. The difference between social media and other news outlets is that it is run by users and largely unregulated, unless you are a high-profile personality. Most teens that use Instagram as a cry for help or to target others go under the radar. A child addicted to Instagram can roll into other problems in their social development.

The biggest problem with social media is that people feel pressure to present false, idealistic versions of themselves. Most accounts are used to glamorize your life, which can be an immediate boost to your self-esteem, but forces you to keep up appearances. While more influencers are becoming vulnerable about having bad days or using Photoshop, teenagers often compare themselves to the good parts of other people’s lives without realizing a picture may hide a thousand words.

Hiding likes may not protect teenagers from cyberbullying or censor the type of information they are exposed to, but it can help teenagers form an identity outside of likes. Constantly comparing yourself to others and receiving messages about what your life should look like, if only you could afford these products or have these experiences, takes a toll on one’s self-esteem and self-concept. Teens feel pressure to be the person they want to be online and look for approval from others by giving into buying products and going places “for the gram.” The lack of censorship of smaller accounts can contribute to receiving hateful comments or spreading screenshots of personal information that can tear apart the unstable sense of self-esteem teens build online.

Benefits of using Instagram

It’s impossible to make your child avoid using Instagram altogether. Most teens have smartphones and communicate with their friends more often through social media than over text.

We don’t believe technology use should be restricted, but we encourage girls and assigned female at birth to learn how to use social media to empower themselves rather than to self-destruct.

Helps teens stay in touch with friends
Provides a way to bond over content in person or to discover you have shared interests with your peers
Easier than communicating in person for teens with social anxiety
Can be easier to reach out for support to a wider audience than to text a specific person. You never know who might respond and how supportive they might be.
Likes are a stamp of approval and support, even if they are easy to obsess over
Encourages teens to share their achievements and creativity
Can be a good distraction from overwhelming emotions
Many accounts are filled with positive messages about self-esteem and embracing who you are

It’s all about choosing who you follow and who you let follow your account. Maybe hiding likes will help get back to the real purpose of social media: forming positive connections.

Solstice West can help

Solstice is a groundbreaking residential treatment center for girls, ages 14 to 18. Our girls and assigned female at birth often grapple with depression, anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and other emotional or behavioral problems when they come to us. Many of them struggle with technology addiction that has taken a blow to their self-esteem and they have difficulty maintaining in-person relationships due to self-doubt, people-pleasing, and insecurity.

Through a unique combination of therapeutic programs based upon both traditional and holistic mental health treatment, we treat our clients with age and gender specific techniques. We strive to empower teenage people with the ability to believe in themselves offline and provide the tools and motivation required to instill these beliefs for life.

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October 26, 2017
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Snapchat Addiction: The Darkside of a Popular Worldwide App

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Snapchat is on almost every teenager’s smartphone. It’s one of the most used apps in the world, competing with other major companies like Instagram, Tik Tok and Facebook. A downside has begun to become apparent, though, as this app continues to increase in popularity: Snapchat addiction.

If your teen is constantly hooked to their phone and other forms of technology due to underlying emotional or behavioral challenges, it may be time to consider treatment options. Click here to learn more about technology addiction and how Solstice works with teens struggling with technology issues.

Why a Snapchat addiction should be taken seriously

A Snapchat addiction creates the same reaction in your teen’s brain as other forms of addiction.

Take gambling addictions for example; people become addicted to the feeling, the rush, of winning money. With technology, it’s similar. For video game addictions, it’s usually being used as a sort of escape from reality. For a Snapchat addiction, it’s more about views and “snap streaks.”

Snap streaks are the way to measure “success” on Snapchat. On Instagram it’s about likes, on Snapchat it’s about the streak. A snap streak is when you’ve been sending snaps directly to a person for a prolonged amount of time. To get the streak, you have to do it each day. If you miss a day, you lose the streak.

For some teens, snap streaks can turn into a measure of how much you care about someone or how much they care for you. It can get so obsessive that the streaks continue for over a year–and if you lose one, it can be devastating, it can even ruin a friendship. So, it’s easy to see how this obsession can grow into something problematic.

It can begin as something harmless, but if behavior increasingly becomes erratic and obsessive based around Snapchat, there may be a real issue. When a teen begins to place their self-worth on the number of likes, followers, or snaps they receive, it can be a sign that your teen may need therapeutic assistance.

Snapchat ranked among the worst social media for mental health

In a study conducted by Royal Society for Public Health (RSPH) and the Young Health Movement (YHM), researchers found that Instagram and Snapchat are the worst for mental health in teens.

The data came from 1,500 youth, ages 14-24, in order to understand social media’s impact on the age group that uses it the most.

The researchers believe this is because the two platforms are largely based on image rather than anything else. It all focuses on followers and shallow status factors. Having your self esteem based on something so volatile and superficial can lead to serious mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, extreme feelings of loneliness, and more.

Solstice is a teen depression treatment center

Solstice is a groundbreaking residential treatment center for girls, ages 14 to 18. Our girls and assigned female at birth often grapple with depression, Snapchat addiction, anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and other emotional or behavioral problems when they come to us. Dealing with these issues can get confusing and overwhelming fast–but we’re here to help guide you.

Through a unique combination of therapeutic programs based upon both traditional and holistic mental health treatment, we treat our clients with age and gender specific techniques. We strive to empower teenage people with the ability to believe in themselves and provide the tools and motivation required to instill these beliefs for life.

For more information about how we help with Snapchat addiction at Solstice, please contact us at (866) 278-3345.

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June 13, 2017
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Solstice 20/20 Episode: How Digital Addiction Is Affecting Teens

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If you haven’t heard already, recently there was a Solstice 20/20 episode about how we deal with digital addiction in our program. Our technological advancements have bettered the lives of many, but there’s always some fallout from new things–that doesn’t make it bad, it just means we have to learn to identify the issue and treat it well.

This is exactly what we talk about in the Solstice 20/20 episode. How we help girls and assigned female at birth who have formed unhealthy attachments to technology work through their issue and find a healthier, sustainable way to use the digital tools given to us to improve their lives.

What is digital addiction?

First, let’s go over what an addiction is. The American Society of Addiction Medicine defines addiction:

“Addiction is characterized by inability to consistently abstain, impairment in behavioral control, craving, diminished recognition of significant problems with one’s behaviors and interpersonal relationships, and a dysfunctional emotional response…This is reflected in an individual pathologically pursuing reward and/or relief by substance use and other behaviors.”

While addiction is most commonly thought to be with substances, it can also be with behaviors. A behavior such as using technological devices–like a smartphone.

When your teen has an extreme compulsion to always have their phone around and use it for at least a minimum amount daily, there’s probably an issue. Especially if that compulsion is getting in the way of their interpersonal relationships and wellbeing.

What is discussed in the Solstice 20/20 episode?

In the Solstice 20/20 episode, we go through one of our students’ experiences with digital addiction. Before coming to Solstice, they struggled with an strong dependency on their cell phone. They would constantly use their phone–texting, posting on various social media platforms, and spending hours and hours of their real life focused on their digital life.

This unhealthy use began to get in the way of relationships with the important people in their life. Her parents–like many–tried to lower their use by taking away their phone, but that seemed to just make matters worse.

She began to act out and get involved with dangerous sides of the internet. After their parents discovered a suicide note by accident, they enrolled their in Solstice to put their on a path to recovery.

The journey hasn’t been easy, but they and their family feel that they have gained a stronger sense of self-awareness, accountability, and overall wellbeing.

In response to a question about their progress, they responded:

“I can be by myself and be okay and I’m reconnecting with a lot of things I love. And I don’t feel empty.”

Solstice is here for your daughter

Through a unique combination of therapeutic programs based upon both traditional and holistic mental health treatment, we treat our clients with age and gender specific techniques. We strive to empower teenage people with the ability to believe in themselves and provide the tools and motivation required to instill these beliefs for life.

For more information about how we help at Solstice, please contact us at (866) 278-3345.

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May 25, 2017
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Why Instagram Could Be Worse for Your Child with Low Self Esteem

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Social media is embedded in most of our daily lives today, few will dispute that. Adults are known to have at least a Facebook profile, while teens are known to have all the social media accounts under the sun–but what are the effects of this? New studies are showing that unfettered social media use may be harmful to teens, especially a child with low self esteem.

Study shows Instagram is most harmful to mental health

Instagram is one of the most popular social media platforms in the world with over 700 million users. The app is centered on photos users post; other users can comment and “like” the post if they choose.

There’s still a vast amount of information we don’t know about the effects of social media on young brains, which is why RSPH and the Young Health Movement decided to conduct a study.

The study, #StatusOfMind, discovered Instagram to be the top contributor to negative mental health effects in youth–while YouTube was the most (and only) positive platform. The study involved almost 1,500 young people, ranging in age from 14 to 24.

The results showed that Instagram was particularly hard on young girls’ mental health–which could be especially alarming if you have a child with low self esteem.

Why Instagram is causing issues

The issue with Instagram has to do with the photos being posted. The majority of photos posted on Instagram of people have been altered with either a filter or other technical modifications–which means they’re often not showing what people really look like, they’re showing the “perfected” version.

The version with clear skin. The version with slimmer legs. The version that doesn’t exist.

For a child with low self esteem, they may scroll through Instagram seeing all of these “perfect” girls and assigned female at birth with “perfect” skin and “perfect” bodies–this may cause their to feel worse about herself because they doesn’t look like those girls, even though they don’t even look like that in real life.

While the researchers agree that it’s not realistic to “ban” filters or photoshop, they are pushing for these platforms to step up and work out a way to let people know an image isn’t showing reality. This would allow teens to see that they’re comparing themselves to something that’s no more real than a fairytale.

We need to teach our children how to use social media in healthy, positive ways that help them connect with others–not degrade their sense of self-worth to how many “likes” they can get on a photo.

If you believe your child is struggling with a mental health issue, it’s critical to reach out to a professional for further guidance.

Solstice is here for your child with low self esteem

Solstice is a groundbreaking residential treatment center for girls, ages 14 to 18. Our girls and assigned female at birth often grapple with depression, low self-esteem, anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and other emotional or behavioral problems when they come to us.

Through a unique combination of therapeutic programs based upon both traditional and holistic mental health treatment, we treat our clients with age and gender specific techniques. We strive to empower teenage people with the ability to believe in themselves and provide the tools and motivation required to instill these beliefs for life.

For more information about how we can help your child with low self esteem at Solstice, please contact us at (866) 278-3345.

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Technology Use

Screen Addiction in Teen Girls: When It Signals a Deeper Issue

Clinically Reviewed by Rod Russell & Blake Taylor

Screen Addiction in Teen Girls: When It Signals a Deeper Issue

Screen Time vs. Screen Addiction: Why the Pattern Matters

How App Design Keeps Teens Coming Back

Signs Your Daughter’s Screen Use May Be Compulsive

1. She Feels Anxious, Angry, or Panicked When Offline

2. Screens Interfere With Sleep, School, or Relationships

3. She Hides Use or Breaks Rules Repeatedly

4. She Uses Screens to Escape Emotional Pain

5. Offline Life Starts to Shrink

Why Teen Girls May Be Especially Vulnerable

How Screen Addiction Overlaps With Process Addictions

The Connection Between Screen Addiction and Substance Use Risk

When Screen Addiction May Need More Than Parental Controls

Outpatient, IOP, or Residential Treatment: What Level of Care May Fit?

Concerned that screen use is part of a larger safety, substance use, or mental health concern?

Speak with our admissions team about whether residential support may be appropriate.

When IOP May Help

When Residential Treatment May Help

How Solstice West RTC Supports Teen Girls and Families

What Parents Can Do Before Things Escalate

Start With Curiosity, Not Accusation

Track Emotional Triggers

Protect Sleep First

Replace the Function, Not Just the Device

Encourage Creative and Educational Tech Use

What to Do Next

FAQs

Is screen addiction a real addiction?

How do I know if my daughter has screen addiction or just likes her phone?

Can screen addiction be treated in IOP?

When does screen addiction require residential treatment?

Is screen addiction connected to substance use?

Crisis and safety note

References

Trauma‑Informed Schools: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Your Child Learn Again

Trauma-Informed Schools & Therapeutic Programs: A Parent Guide

Quick answer: What is a trauma-informed school?

Why trauma makes school so hard

Children’s responses to trauma: emotional, behavioral, and physical

1. Routines and predictability

2. Relationships and co-regulation

3. Voice, choice, and agency

4. De-escalation spaces that teach skills

5. Instruction that lowers overload

6. Restorative, not purely punitive, discipline

How parents can support their child right now

Co-regulation and structure

Talk with teachers in a way that builds partnership

When school supports aren’t enough: signs your child might need a therapeutic school

What to look for in a therapeutic school

How Solstice West supports students with trauma at school

When to seek professional help (beyond school changes)

What to do next

Talk With Our Team About the Right Next Step

Crisis and safety note

References

Helping a Teen With Addictive Behaviors: Signs, Support Options, and When Inpatient Care Is the Right Step

What Are Addictive Behaviors in Teens?

Is an “Addictive Personality” a Real Diagnosis for Teens?

Common teen addictive or compulsive behaviors include:

What Causes Addictive Behaviors in Teenagers?

What Environmental Triggers Make Teen Addictive Behaviors Worse?

What Are the Warning Signs of Addictive Behaviors in Teens?

How to Talk to a Teen About Addictive Behaviors?

More effective approaches include:

A helpful mindset shift for parents:

How Do You Set Boundaries With a Teen Who Has Addictive Behaviors?

Rules vs. Boundaries: What’s the Difference?

Why Boundaries Matter More Than Rules for Addictive Behaviors

Turning Rules Into Boundaries: Practical Examples

Sample Scripts for Setting Boundaries With Compassion

Example in Practice

What Treatment Options Are Available for Teens With Addictive Behaviors?

Common Levels of Care

When Is Outpatient Therapy Not Enough for a Teen?

How Do You Know If a Teen Needs Residential Treatment?

What Effective Residential Treatment for Teens Looks Like